Christmas in Kansas City has a way of sneaking up on me every year. One minute we're raking leaves, and the next the Plaza is glowing and my kids are asking when we're going to see Elf on the big screen.
We've tried a lot of holiday outings around town over the years. Some became traditions. Some we did once and never needed to do again. These five are the ones we keep coming back to, and the ones I'd send a friend to first.
I photograph families for a living, so I think a lot about which moments are worth slowing down for. These are.
Dates and details were checked in early November 2026. Plans can change, so tap through to the official page before you head out.
1. The Plaza Lights
This is the one everyone knows, and for good reason. The Plaza Lights come on Thanksgiving night, Thursday, Nov. 26, at a free ceremony that runs 5 to 7:30 p.m. The switch flips around 6:25, and fireworks follow.
After that, the lights shine every night from 5 p.m. to 3 a.m. through mid January. All the Plaza garages are open for the season, so you can park once and walk.
Pro Tip: Thanksgiving night is packed. If your little ones are done by dinner, skip the ceremony and go on a weeknight in early December instead. The lights are just as pretty, and you can actually hold hands without losing anyone.
2. The Mayor's Christmas Tree at Crown Center
The Mayor's Christmas Tree stands 100 feet tall on Crown Center Square, and it lights up the night after Thanksgiving, Friday, Nov. 27, at 6 p.m. The lighting is free, Youth Chorus KC sings, and the night ends with fireworks.
The tree stays lit all season. On weekends from Nov. 27 to Dec. 20, the square also hosts the Hallmark Christmas Experience, with light shows on the tree, live music and a Christmas market. The square is open to the public, and the star events are ticketed. If anyone in your crew wants to skate, the Crown Center Ice Terrace is right next door.
3. Union Station, especially Elf on the Extreme Screen
Union Station goes all in for Christmas. Holiday Reflections, the indoor walk-through village with holiday model trains, runs Nov. 20 to Jan. 4. Tickets start at $9, and evening and weekend times sell out, so book ahead.
But our favorite thing there costs $4. Every year Union Station shows classic holiday movies on the Extreme Screen. Elf plays Nov. 27 to Dec. 10, and The Polar Express plays Dec. 11 to 24. Seeing Elf there is our every year tradition. If you've never seen Buddy five stories tall, put it on your list. Wear the pajamas. Get the popcorn.
Psssst. Want the whole season in one place? My free Christmas in Kansas City Guide has 25 holiday outings and ideas with dates, prices and links, all in one printable guide you can keep on the fridge. Sign up below and I’ll send it straight to your inbox!
4. A drive-through light show
Some nights you want the magic without the mittens. Kansas City has two great drive-throughs, one on each side of town.
Up north, Winter Magic fills Platte Purchase Park with a mile of lights synced to music on your car radio. It runs nightly from early November into early January, starting at 6 p.m. Tickets are $20 to $40 per car and cost more at the gate, so buy online.
Down south, Christmas in the Park winds through Longview Lake with hundreds of animated displays. It opens Wednesday, Nov. 25, right after the free Christmas in the Sky fireworks. It's free to drive through, and donations at the exit go to local charities. Weeknights early in the season have the shortest lines.
5. Christmas on the River in Parkville
If you live in the Northland like we do, this is the one I'd circle. Christmas on the River turns downtown Parkville into a small-town Christmas on Friday, Dec. 4, from 6 to 9:30 p.m.
There's a Christmas market, Santa in his North Pole House, the Grinch and Cindy Lou Who, and fireworks over the Missouri River around 8:45. Free shuttles run from the South Platte YMCA, which makes it an easy night out with kids.
Our favorite is still free
For all the big events, our family favorite is still the simplest one. Pajamas on, a thermos of cocoa, Christmas music turned up, and a slow drive through the neighborhoods looking at lights. No tickets, no schedule, no destination.
If you do one thing this season, make it that. And hand your phone to someone else for a picture, even if your hair isn't done. Your kids will want to see you there.
Get the full Christmas in Kansas City Guide
These five are just the start. The full guide picks up where this post leaves off, with everything in one place so you can plan the season in a few minutes. Inside:
Thanksgiving week, including the Ward Parkway Tiny Turkey Trot for kids
Six holiday shows and concerts, from $4 movies to The Nutcracker
Christmas markets and small-town celebrations across the metro
Two farm living nativities north of the river
Ways to serve together as a family, with age requirements
Our cozy at-home traditions and simple ideas for remembering this season in photos
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And if you'd like photographs of your family in this season, just as you are, I'd love to hear from you.
Merry Christmas, Kansas City.
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